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Liefde DRYF tot dissipline, maar die wet dwing om te straf

Liefde DRYF tot dissipline, maar die wet dwing om te straf

“God is liefde” (1 Johannes 4:16). Sy wet is liefde (Matthéüs 22:36-40). En liefde is nie selfsugtig nie (1 Korinthiërs 13:5) – liefde poog nie om vir jouself te kry nie, maar om te gee om ander op te hef. Hierdie werklikheid bestaan van die ewigheid af en sal tot in ewigheid bestaan, want God verander nooit nie (Jesaja 57:15; Maleagi 3:6; Jakobus 1:17), en Sy ontwerpwette vir die werklikheid is Sy liefde ingebou in die weefsel van die heelal; dit is liefde in aksie, die vaste wette van hemel en aarde wat nie verander nie (Jeremia 33:25).

Maar wat beteken dit dat “God liefde is”? Is dit dieselfde ding as “God is liefdevol”? Ek en jy kan liefdevol wees, maar ons is nie liefde nie. Liefde is meer as ‘n gevoel; dit is funksioneel, en dit funksioneer deur te gee, deur welwillendheid, deur uitwaartse beweging van energie tot voordeel van ander. Liefde is nie selfsugtig nie; dit is onbaatsugtig, ander-gesentreerd, genesend en herstellend.

Wat dink jy daarvan dat nie net is God se natuur liefde nie, maar ook dat God se wet liefde is? Funksioneer liefde deur geweld, dwang, dreigement en straf? Kan jy liefde by mense wek deur reëls vir hulle op te stel en dan te dreig om hulle te straf as hulle nie aan jou reëls gehoorsaam is nie? Wat gebeur as ‘n mens reëls opstel wat ons “wette” noem, maar wat nie ontwerpwette is nie en dan eksterne druk gebruik om nakoming af te dwing? Vrees, wantroue en rebellie lei tot die vernietiging van liefde! Dit is hoe die werklikheid funksioneer. En dit is waarom die koninkryke van die wêreld Satan s’n is – omdat hulle almal funksioneer in opgemaakte wette wat deur eksterne straf afgedwing word, wat uiteindelik liefde vernietig en rebellie aanhits (Matthéüs 4:8, 9; Johannes 18:36). Dit is waarom elke regering wat ooit bestaan het, deur die geskiedenis van die wêreld uiteindelik omvergewerp en vervang word. Maar God se koninkryk is ‘n ewige koninkryk – dit sal nooit vervang word nie (Daniël 4:3; Lukas 1:33; 2 Petrus 1:11).

God se ontwerpwette is uitdrukkings van Sy karakter van liefde. Om daardie wet te oortree, verbreek die protokolle van die lewe en sal pyn, lyding en dood tot gevolg hê, tensy dit deur God genees word. Soos die Bybel leer, “Hy wat saai om sy sondige natuur te behaag, sal uit daardie natuur vernietiging maai” (Galasiërs 6:8 NIV 84). Om die wette van God te oortree, is die oortreding van die wette waarop lewe gebou is en vernietig die wetsoortreder, tensy dit deur ons Skepper genees word.

Een van God se ontwerpwette vir intelligente wesens is die wet van waarheid. Ons kan nie gesondheid hê in leuens, in valshede, uit harmonie met die waarheid en die werklikheid nie. Die Bybel leer dus dat liefde bly is met die waarheid (1 Korinthiërs 13:6) en God is ook waarheid – die oneindige bron van waarheid (Johannes 3:33, 14:6, 16:13). In God is daar geen duisternis, geen leuen, geen bedrog nie (1 Johannes 1:5). Liefde werk dus altyd met die waarheid, praat waarheid, pas waarheid toe, beweeg vorentoe in die waarheid, want die waarheid genees en maak vry (Joh 8:32).

Liefde bestaan slegs in ‘n atmosfeer van vryheid. Dus, soos die Bybel leer, “Die Here is die Gees, en waar die Gees van die Here is, daar is vryheid (2 Korinthiërs 3:17). Dit is die wet van vryheid, ‘n ontwerpwet wat die werking van harte en gedagtes beheer. Individualiteit, ontwikkeling, liefde en groei vind slegs plaas in vryheid.

 

GOD, DISSIPELSKAP EN STRAF

God se wette is nie soos die wette van skepsele nie; God regeer nie deur opgemaakte reëls wat deur dwang en eksterne strawwe afgedwing word nie, want sulke metodes skend vryheid, beskadig liefde, hits rebellie aan en vernietig individualiteit.

Maar die Bybel leer dat God diegene dissiplineer vir wie Hy lief is; verder dokumenteer die Bybel dat God baie verskillende soorte reëls of wette gegee het (Hebreërs 12:6). So, as God se wet nie soos menslike wet is nie en God nie wette afdwing soos mense nie, hoe verstaan ons al die voorbeelde in die Skrif van God wat wet en eksterne mag gebruik – die vernietiging van die wêreld deur ‘n vloed, Sodom, die eersgeborenes van Egipte, en ander – met die feit dat God sê Hy dissiplineer diegene wat Hy liefhet?

Dissipline kom van die grondwoord “dissipel”, en dit beteken om te onderrig. Liefde sal dus ingryp met kunsmatig opgelegde gevolge om op te voed, te onderrig, te illustreer, te beskerm en lesse tuis te bring na die hart en verstand om kinders, die onvolwasse, tot bekering, tot begrip, tot insig te bring sodat hulle vrylik sal kies om hul harte en gedagtes te verander na die goeie. Sodanige dissipline is ‘n bemiddeling, ‘n voorbidding, ‘n tussentrede, ‘n kunsmatige ingryping wat geplaas word tussen die oortreder en die ware, uiteindelike natuurlike gevolg van die resultate wat ‘n keuse sonder ingryping sou veroorsaak. Hoekom? Omdat liefde ander-gesentreerd is: dit poog om kinders te red, te beskerm en te verlos van selfvernietiging.

Straf kom uit dieselfde wortel as “bestraffend” en beteken om wraak te neem op, om af te dwing, om straf op te lê – nie om te verlos nie, maar om die wet en die gesag van die heersende stelsel te handhaaf. Daar is niks verlossend daaraan om te straf nie. Straf is nie vir die oortreder nie; dit is vir ander – sodat die gemeenskap nie in opstand sal kom nie, sodat die sondige gemeenskap sal voel “die lewe is regverdig,” sodat die sondige gemeenskap nie hul eie wraak sal soek nie, sodat die beledigdes tevrede sal voel dat die oortreder gekry het wat hulle verdien het, en sodat die maghebbers die mag kan behou en verhoed dat die mense rebelleer.

God is liefde, en God, wanneer hy met opstandige, onregverdige, selfsugtige, sondige mense te doen het, stel ‘n stelsel van reëls op met wetlike owerhede en meganismes van kunsmatige tussentrede om eksterne strawwe toe te dien om die liefdeloses, die onregverdiges, die goddeloses te weerhou om ander te mishandel en uit te buit, om die selfvernietiging van die goddeloses te beperk om hul eie harte te verhard deur sulke sondige dade, en om die weg oop te hou vir die Messias en die vervulling van die verlossingsplan.

God se instruksies in die voorsiening van opgelegde wette, soos die Tien Gebooie, was vir die doel van dissipline, opvoeding, selfbeheersing en verlossing van elke misdadiger/sondaar/reëloortreder – maar ook om die gemeenskap te beskerm teen die sonde in hul lewens wat hulle lei tot groter afguns, jaloesie, wellus, optrede in woede, begeerte na wraak, en om te glo in een of ander vorm van aanspreeklikheid en regverdigheid, om ‘n mate van sosiale orde in ‘n sondige wêreld te verskaf terwyl God Sy plan in werking gestel het om Jesus te bring om harte en gedagtes te genees terug na Sy ideaal.

Al die Ou Testamentiese wette wat deur Moses gegee is, is slegs bedoel vir diegene wat nie wedergebore is nie, vir die opstandiges, en vir die wedergebore onvolwasse babas, die kinders wat nog nie van beter weet nie, wat sonder ‘n reël steeds in die straat sou speel, nie hul tande sou borsel nie, of Baäl sou aanbid en dink dit is reg.

 

DIE BYKOMENDE WET

Die apostel Paulus het voortdurend met dieselfde konflik te doen gehad, die wettiese Joodse leiers wat geglo het dat God se wet soos menslike wet funksioneer en wat rondgegaan het om reëls op mense af te dwing en daardeur verwarring veroorsaak het. Paulus moes dus aan die Galasiërs skryf en hulle daaraan herinner dat God se geskrewe wette, insluitend die Tien Gebooie, weens sonde bygevoeg is vir die behoefte van mense (Galasiërs 3:19-25).

Maar miskien was Paulus die duidelikste toe hy aan Timoteus geskryf het:

Die doel van hierdie opdrag is liefde, wat uit ‘n rein hart en ‘n goeie gewete en ‘n opregte geloof kom. Party het hiervan weggedwaal en hulle tot betekenislose praatjies gewend. Hulle wil leraars van die wet wees, maar hulle weet nie waarvan hulle praat of wat hulle so vol vertroue beaam nie (1 Timoteus 1:5-7 NIV 84, beklemtoning myne).

Paulus maak dit duidelik dat God se koninkryk die koninkryk van liefde is, wat funksioneer op die lewende wette, protokolle van liefde, wat in die hart werk. Die onderwysers van die reg weet egter nie waarvan hulle praat nie. Hulle bevorder reëls en reëltoepassing, die soort wette wat mense opmaak en wat tot rebellie sal lei as die hart nie tot liefde bekeer word nie. Geweld skend vryheid, wat liefde vernietig. En dit is wat alle wettiese godsdienste doen: Hulle vernietig liefde en hits meer rebellie teen God aan. Paulus maak dit dus duidelik dat God se geskrewe wet NIE vir die regverdiges is nie; dit is eerder vir die onvolwasse, selfsugtige, onbekeerde mense:

Ons weet dat die wet goed is as ‘n mens dit reg gebruik. Ons weet ook dat die wet nie vir die regverdiges gemaak word nie, maar vir wetsoortreders en opstandiges, die goddelose en sondiges, die onheiliges en ongodsdienstiges; vir diegene wat hulle vaders of moeders doodmaak, vir moordenaars, vir egbrekers en ontaardes, vir slawehandelaars en leuenaars en meinedige – en met alles anders wat in stryd is met die gesonde leer wat ooreenstem met die glorieryke evangelie van die geseënde God, wat hy aan my toevertrou het (1 Timoteus 1:8-11 NIV 84, beklemtoning myne).

Die Bybel leer dat die geskrewe wet bygevoeg is as gevolg van ons sonde om daardie sonde aan ons te openbaar – om ons te diagnoseer, om ons te oortuig van ons terminale sonde-toestand – en om ons na Jesus, ons hemelse Geneesheer, te lei vir genesing. Die geskrewe wet, insluitend die Tien Gebooie, is bygevoeg vir ons behoefte en het slegs gevegsvoordeel in ‘n wêreld van sonde.

In ‘n wêreld waar God Sy lewende wet van liefde, waarheid en vryheid in harte en gedagtes herstel het en vrees en selfsug (die vleeslike natuur) uitgeroei het, is daar geen geskrewe wet nie – want dit is nie nodig nie! Wanneer liefde in die hart heers soos God bedoel, is daar geen opgelegde wet wat opdrag gee om nie te vermoor, te steel, owerspel te pleeg, valse getuienis te lewer, ander gode te vermy nie, ens., want die regverdiges word verafsku deur selfs die gedagte aan sulke dinge. Die regverdiges leef die wet van God uit as die dryfveer en motiveerder van hulle optrede. Die Tien Gebooie-wet het slegs ‘n doel en funksie in ‘n wêreld van sonde. God se ewige ontwerpwette (liefde, waarheid, vryheid, ens.) bestaan en funksioneer oor die hele heelal deur alle ewigheid, verlede en toekoms.

 

WANNEER GOD VERNIETIG

Wat dan van die tye en plekke in die Bybel waar God wel krag gebruik het om te vernietig? Is dit nie ‘n bewys dat Hy opgelegde wette met opgelegde strawwe gebruik nie? Glad nie – in plaas daarvan, is dit ‘n bewys van God wat werk om die vernietiging van sonde te beperk met die doel om Sy belofte in Genesis 3:15 te vervul, die beloofde Saad om sonde, dood en Satan te vernietig en die mensdom te verlos.

Toe Adam gesondig het, het hy homself verander en homself uit harmonie met God en God se wet vir die lewe gebring. Adam se toestand het terminaal geword, dood in oortreding en sonde. Sonder Jesus, die beloofde Saad, sou Adam vir ewig sterf. Maar God is liefde, en liefde dryf aksie – daarom het God se liefde Hom gedryf om op te tree om te red en te genees.

Want so lief het God die wêreld gehad dat Hy sy enigste Seun gegee het, sodat elkeen wat in Hom glo, nie verlore sal gaan nie, maar die ewige lewe sal hê. Want God het nie sy Seun in die wêreld gestuur om die wêreld te veroordeel nie, maar om die wêreld deur Hom te red (Joh 3:16, 17 NIV 84).

Sonder Jesus se koms sou geen mens lewe nie, want alle mense is besmet met hierdie terminale toestand (Psalm 51:5). Dus, dwarsdeur die hele Ou Testamentiese verhaal, sien ons God werk in liefde, barmhartigheid en genade om die weg oop te hou vir die geboorte van die Messias, en Satan het teen God oorlog gevoer en probeer om daardie tak van die mensdom te vernietig.

Vir ‘n meer gedetailleerde verkenning van hoe liefde werk om patologie in bedwang te hou, om die kanale van seëninge oop te hou, maar nooit die bron van toegediende pyn en dood is nie, sien ons blogs:

Die Vloed En Die Vraag Of God Doodmaak – Deel 1

Die Vloed En Die Vraag Of God Doodmaak – Deel 2

Die Doodstraf In Ou Testamentiese Tye

God Se Toorn Teenoor Satan Se Toorn – Wat Is Die Verskil?

Die Waarheid Omtrent Die Hel

Ek nooi jou uit om die wêreldse beskouing van die wet te verwerp en die ewige wet van liefde van ons Skepper God as jou motiveerder vir die lewe te omhels. Dit is die liefde en waarheid van God, soos gemanifesteer in Jesus, wat genees en transformeer:

“Die liefde van Christus dring ons. Omdat ons geoordeel het dat Een vir almal gesterf het, glo ons dat ons almal ons ou, sondige lewe afgesterf het. Hy hét vir almal gesterf sodat dié wat lewe, nie meer vir hulself moet leef nie, maar vir Hom wat vir hulle gesterf het en opgewek is. Van nou af beoordeel ons niemand meer volgens ’n menslike maatstaf nie (2 Korinthiërs 5:14-16 NIV 84, beklemtoning myne).

Word verander deur die waarheid en liefde van God en jy sal dinge nie meer deur die lens van hierdie wêreld, met sy opgemaakte, opgelegde regstelsel, sien nie, maar deur die waarheid soos dit in Jesus is!

 

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